I am being ironic

Recently I found out that one of e guy i know is having an affair.. He has a wife and a kid..
He was caught with another woman overseas holidaying by another friend... Of cos we are not close to his wife so we r not gonna do anything about it.. Afterall, it is none of our business.

Makes me wonder.. Those who heard about his affair, were saying, well his wife is fat and not pretty so make sense..

Frankly speaking, yes his wife is not attractive. But he is not that attractive either.. He himself is not even close to Jude Law!

Sadly, we live in this world where beautiful things on e outside are appreciated.. Who doesnt like beautiful things?

But why everyone thinks is fair for the guys to stray cuz their spouse or partner is not pretty enough? Why only we woman have to groom ourselves to look pretty for the partner? Are we just an accessory and a throphy to them?

When women stray we don't usually say she strayed cuz the husband has a pot belly.. If the wife strayed, would we say it's bcuz the husband is not attractive enuf?

However that is the reality..
I might be vain and being ironic here, but i do want to look good for my partner. I want my partner to hear that he has a pretty gf. If myself being attractive, boosts my partner's ego, I will put on make up, dress up and wear heels for him..

So maybe deep inside, I do agree with the guys tho i want to deny so bad.. yah.. the wife isnt attractive so he stray... End of kopi tok, nothing to discuss any further.

Sad isnt it..?